"Yes, I'm Single."

"Yes,I'm single! Yes I'm free!! My life is drama free now!!! This is what my single ladies out there think and ofcourse what you want to believe,but in the innermost part of your heart,you know you are as bored as a lonely man in the dessert,well thats even if he can survive there,lol! Because there are just some things you can't say or do with anybody else other than your partner,the one guy you have got an incurable addiction to.
This might seem odd to you but its just the plain truth. Well there are different reasons why a young lady would want to remain single but generally its very common that most single ladies choose to try to explore their single life after an almighty heart break!

So because you have gone through an heart break at some point in your life and it didnt go so well with you,you become overwhelmed with fear of the same thing repeating itself if you try to love again. You are scared of trusting because you feel you might trust a person and when things are down they forget you,but maybe they dont forget you,they just forget to remember you. Someone who was not even meant for you broke your heart or fell out of love with you,you stopped trusting but I think that seems like a sort of a dumb thing to do!

You want to keep your heart to yourself
because you think it might get cheated on or broken again,it won't really help because when you finally decide to use it again especially after a very long time it might be no good again. You know,it's just like you keeping a newly bought pair of shoes that you really like because you are scared it will wear out,but after keeping it for long,at the end you will out grow it and you wunt be able to rock and show it off again!

Okay,you feel you dont want to use your heart,if you dont use it,nobody even cares then if its gets broken or not,if you keep it to yourself,it may be like the shoes eventually and I bet none of you pretty heart single ladies wants that.

You all should take the chance of loving again,just follow the star in your heart,your heart might still be broken but it isnt gone. Well it is not really a crime if you decide to take a break from the whole dating drama but dont let it take forever with you being overwhelmed with fear so you dont miss the opportunity of finding that perfect gentle man for you 'cause i really do believe they still exist.. (To the guys;please stop being a jerk and prove to these pretty hearts that you are worth a try).

And ofcourse,when you finally decide to follow the star in your heart,go through the right directions and build love with its basics with the person that feels right from your heart.

Its not really much fun when you dont have someone to share with, only if you have exceptional reasons of being single other than fear.

"Seyi Evans